The ideal compliment is flattering and followed with something slightly cocky and humorous. Here are a couple of examples you can use:

"You have really cute dimples. Not as cute as mine, but still cute"

"I like your shoes", pause and wait for response. Then say," Are you like 5'2" without them on?" - Girls tend to wear big heels these days to make themselves taller. If she has big ones on, this is a great compliment because it tells her you appreciate her style (girls spend half their salary on shoes), and it's also good to get a laugh out of her. If she laughs you can follow this up with, "What's with women wearing these huge heels these days?"

Also, make sure you're specific with compliments - don't say "You're beautiful". Tell her what is beautiful about her. Never compliment the obvious either. If she has beautiful eyes, don't compliment her on her eyes. Chances are that every other guy her entire life has complimented her on her eyes. Instead, find something unique to compliment her on - something that she's never heard before.

This will make her think that you really appreciate beauty and particularly her beauty. Compliment her on things she has chosen. She didn't chose to be born beautiful, therefore complimenting her on it isn't as effective as complimenting her on something she did choose like her mastery of the English language. Telling her that she's well spoken is much more effective than telling her she's beautiful,

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