Be careful not to reveal your insecurities or inner sensitivity too soon with a woman. This concept can be hard for men to understand because a lot of times we hear women say that they want a sensitive man, who's not too macho to admit his insecurities. Actually, they do want a man who's not afraid to point out his insecurities, but not before they've already established that you are a strong, powerful man.

On a first or second date you have not yet established yourself as the dominant male she has been programmed to desire. Therefore, by bringing up your insecurities too early you never give her a chance to see you this way. Once you establish yourself as a dominant male, you can begin to introduce your insecurities and she may even find them cute and humanizing.

The quintessential "nice guy" feels the need to put everything on the table right away and tell a woman all of his inner feelings because he thinks the woman will somehow instantly relate to his human side and it will create a bond. It really seems logical that a woman, who is an insecure, emotional creature, would automatically relate to you because you reveal your insecurities.

However it just doesn't work that way. Women need to know that a man is emotionally stable and strong enough to support her when she's feeling emotionally weak. When you start showing her all of your emotions and insecurities immediately she begins to think you aren't capable of this.

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