So you've been talking to a girl for a few minutes and you want to get her phone number but you're not exactly sure how to go about it. Here is exactly what you say to get her number. "You seem like a really cool girl, give me your number and let's continue this conversation over dinner this weekend".

As you are saying this, take out your cell phone and assume that she's going to give it to you. After years of practicing and reading about every technique in the world people use to get a girl's number, I've found this method the most effective. The only one that works better is if you can elicit a similar interest from her and use it to get her number.

For example, if you found out you like a similar band, you'd say, "Ya know what, give me your number and let's go check out a show some time". If you found out she wants to see a certain movie, you say, "Give me your number and I'll take you out to see it". It's not always easy to establish this interest in a few sentences so if you can't do it, just go with the first example I gave you.

Many times when you ask for a woman's number she'll say something like, "Give me yours and I'll call you". Don't fall for this! First of all it's very rare that she'll actually call you. Even if you think she seems really interested, she still probably won't call mainly just because women are programmed not to call men first. She'll either get too nervous to call or her inner voice will tell her that it's not okay to call a guy first. I know this may seem ironic because she's the one who asked for your number, but remember that women aren't logical creatures. Much of what they do is illogical.

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