Arrogance has become such a dirty word in today's world. When asking a woman what she doesn't want in a man, arrogance is one of the first on the list. That is the answer that she thinks she should give. She probably even believes it herself. There is some validity to the statement. When women say that they don't like arrogant men, they really mean one of a few things:

- They don't like arrogant men who can't back up their talk
- They don't like arrogant men who act that way as an obvious cover-up for insecurities
- They don't like arrogant men who never show humility or a softer side
- They don't like arrogant men who are just plain mean

Women like arrogance when it's disguised and bundled with. You need to always act humble but also maintain an arrogant undertone. The key is to have the right mix of arrogance and sweetness. Women want a man who's better than them. They want to date up - not down. Calculated arrogance is one way to show her that if she gets you, she'll be dating up.

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