It's not nice to feel like a failure and this is why chasing your EX will cause you to ride the "Emotional Loser Coaster."

You are chasing your EX because you have a need to feel powerless so that you don't have to take responsibility for becoming a complete knockout and doing something greater with your life.

The world is waiting for you to get up from this place of self pity so that you can really start to give back instead of wanting to be diapered all of the time. Your friends are probably sick of hearing you go on and on about how much he/she's done you wrong.

Cry a little, whine a little, feel sorry a little, but don't stay there. Do yourself right by moving forward, which might actually get your partner's attention more and create a life that is much better from what you had.

This kind of attitude takes real strength - the kind that is locked up in you, which you need to let come out. Living your life for your EX is a powerless place to be.

So if you decide today that you're going to do right by yourself, then I can help you create the level of respect that you truly deserve. You deserve true love, the kind that will last, someone who will hold you and never let you go.

Take personal responsibility for your life and you will see that you are much bigger than a Breakup. It works!

Cry a little, whine a little, feel sorry a little, but don't stay there. Do yourself right by moving forward, which might actually get your partner's attention more and create a life that is much better from what you had.

This kind of attitude takes real strength - the kind that is locked up in you, which you need to let come out. Living your life for your EX is a powerless place to be.

So if you decide today that you're going to do right by yourself, then I can help you create the level of respect that you truly deserve. You deserve true love, the kind that will last, someone who will hold you and never let you go.

Take personal responsibility for your life and you will see that you are much bigger than a Breakup. It works!

Nicole Gayle is the Author of the e-book, "What to Do When Your Partner Wants Out," - this e-book is not for everyone, it is for people who want to learn the secrets to becoming more attractive, happier, and secure. If this describes you, go to http://www.whenyourpartnerwantsout.com for an instant download.