First things first is that you have got to get her contact (phone number,email,Instant Messenger ID) because that's the only way to get to know her better before asking her out on the date. A lot of guys just are always going out on guys-only outings, the reason? Well, they could be gay. But the fact is they don't dare take action to ask for a girl's contact. And therefore, having no dates on Friday and Saturday nights.

I know that you might be afraid of the idea of getting a girl's contact. You might be asking "Doesn't that make me look like I'm desperate? or What if I get rejected? or What if she gave me a fake number?" The point here is you'll never know unless you do it. You see, women have many different reasons for giving out their phone numbers. Some love the attention of having a lot of men call them. Some like to turn guys down. Some are actually interested. But the universal feedback that I get from men, and in my personal experience, women act different on the phone than they do in person.

Now I'm going to teach you the way I get dates easily and effectively. Start a conversation with a girl, then say that you have got to go after 2-3minutes with her. They usually don't know what to do since they always get hit on by men that cling on to them. Say" It's nice meeting you", turn you back around and start to walk away but don't. Turn yourself around again and asks if she has an email. She says yes and you ask her to write it down for you. Tip:Have pen and paper with you all the time! When she's writing it, ask her to write her number down there too and she will because it's only natural because she has started writing something.

Next, you just have to call her or email her and get to know her better through flirting. And when the chemistry of you both reach a point where you think it's guaranteed that she'll go out with you, ask her out. You guys will be having fun in no time.

That's all you need. The basic steps. Just try to include some creativity if you can. For more of these articles, visit my blog at www.onlinedatingz.blogspot.com , it's not about online dating but I simply chose the name at that time when registering, I kind of regret it now. Remember to visit it now!

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