First of all I am sorry that you suspect your spouse cheating. It is heart breaking and that gut feeling will not go away until you get solid proof and evidence of the cheating. Catch a cheating spouse is not easy and you might have asked yourself if you need to hire a private investigator. The answer is no, there are a lot of things you can take care of yourself, and get solid proof of cheating. That is absolutely something you want to do, get the solid proof. You do not want to destroy your relationship on false accusations.

Also you need the proof when you are ready to confront your spouse, this might not be tomorrow but the day will come. If you do not have the proof and confront your spouse about your suspicion he or she is just going to deny it and try the hardest they can to not reveal their affair. If a cheater knows that somebody is on them they get very careful.

So what are the things you can do to catch a cheating spouse?

Your spouse is likely to communicate with his/her lover on the computer and cell phone. A cheater always leaves traces on the computer and on his/her cell phone.

Cell phone - The first thing you can start checking is the cell phone bill. Is there a suspicious number that has been called over and over again? Is the phone calls made the same time everyday? Right before your spouse gets home from work or when he/she takes the dog for a walk every night? If you do find a suspicious number, you can find out whom that belongs to, where the person lives...

Computer - If your spouse acts nervous around the computer, change screen when you walk in the room... you need to find out what is going on on the computer. First check the browsing history, what sites has been visited. If your spouse has cleared the history he/she is hiding something. Do you know the log in for his/her e-mail, log in and read them. It is most likely though that your spouse created a new e-mail account, hotmail or yahoo that you might not know about. What you can do is install a computer spyware that will give you all the information you need. It will show you websites visited, e-mails send and received and from whom, anything that is going on on your spouse computer will you get access to, without them knowing.

There are other things you can do as well to catch your spouse cheating. Check the credit card bills for suspicious purchases, restaurant visits, hotel visits, gifts that you did not receive online purchases...

Check the mileages on his/her car, is there more than usual or maybe less.

Visit your spouse at work when he/she is "working late", bring dinner if he/she is there they will enjoy the surprise dinner, if not where is your spouse...

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Veronica L is a successful freelance writer and the owner of Is My Man Cheating? and Is My Wife or Girlfriend Cheating?